Five years ago I dated this woman off and on for 2 years or so.. It basically ended because my father passed away and I had to assume care for my mother, and she basically was not cool with the amount of time I spent taking care of my Mother (something I do not regret doing!!). A year later my mother died, and during my grief I tried to reach out to this person, more or less just to say hello, and she basically told me she was seeing someone and not to call her again. Than this summer I started getting text messages from her asking me to call her...I ignored them, than this week they became more frequent. Apparently she has degenerative spinal disease and is homeless, and has no where to go, and from the sound of it is looking for support (financial, emotional, etc). Emotionally I dont really feel anything for her...I feel badly for her because of her situation, but I am not really in a position to help her. Also, i am not really in her area anymore. I am a good 3 hours away. I have yet to return any of her texts, emails or calls, and I don't really plan to. Not really sure what Im looking for by posting this, but what would others do in this position?