I think you're right. It's inconsiderate people who are only concerned with their own agenda that are ruining our community and our country. Couldn't agree more.
That being said, I would argue that what's ruining America to a higher degree is people who can't lighten up and just let everyone do their thing. As I said, people are so caught up in their own comfort, that they do not realize this earth does not revolve around them. Yeah, this applies to me and what I do in the bathroom as much as it applies to you, but don't for a second think it doesn't apply to you. Is it really that big of a deal that you are hearing someone's conversation a few stalls over? In the long run, is that such a show-stopping social faux pas that you all need to vent about it to each other? Everything offends everyone nowadays - I see it at work, but I also see it in the community at large. Who am I hurting by talking to someone on the phone while in the restroom? Have you not ever seen someone you know in the restroom and struck up a casual conversation? What's the difference?
In my eyes, this is a really great example of the state of the country in general. People need to lighten up, let the world work like it's going to, and don't sweat the small stuff. Take a step back, and instead of observing what other people do to annoy you, try to observe what you do to annoy other people, try to make yourself better instead of trying to bring everyone up to your standards. For example: after this thread, I probably will discontinue my bathroom conversations, as I had no idea it bugged so many people. I stand by my principles, though.
Do we not all do things that annoy other people? You'd be lying if you answered this with a 'no' - all of you.
To each his own, Lee.