Update:
Called up apple about this while dealing with another problem and they pushed me to a section that is working on an update fix to this very issue.
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The root of the problem may lie in the WOL being enabled and/or, go into sys preference/Sharing, and see what is enabled. I have File Sharing, Remote management, and Remote apple events enabled. Disabling all of those may fix your problem.
Nope. WOL is disabled and have nothing on in sharing.