Chip NoVaMac said:What changed is that since the '90s we have become a more polarized society. If we can't attack for some one for their politics, then we attack on their housing or car choices IMO. As I have said though, it is a two way street. Drivers of larger vehicles have to realize that they have to share the roads and parking lots. Same thing for those that drive smaller vehicles.
The greater issue is how do we overcome the "me first" attitude that has grown in this nation. Everyone thinks that their time is more valuable than the next person. Funereal processions are no longer given the respect or following of the law. People driving all sorts of cars block fire lanes at shopping centers, as they do using the handicapped spaces.
I totally agree with your comments above that more of the issue is the drivers' disregard for others, not necessarily the car they drive.
I wanted to add something in regards to why people dislike others choices for cars. I think that if someone wants to spend the money and buy a large SUV they should be able to. What gets me a little pissed off is when those people claim no responsibly for any of the problems large cars introduce. One example for a large truck, no small car behind you can see past you and your headlights are blinding those in front of you. This tends to annoy those around you even if you are a good driver. The same is true of 18 wheelers, but they at least are supposed to be in only the right most lane.
I think the bottom line is that big and small vehicles don't mix well. Add to that discourteous drivers, and you have even more problems. The upside is that all the large cars on the road has increased my interest in public transit. Maybe something good will come out of all this, eventually.