Back in the early days of the internet there was something called "Netiquette," which was very useful because it reminded people of how the way in which they were using email, instant messaging, Usenet, web-based discussion forums, etc. could and did affect others. This was back in the time of bandwidth being a major consideration for most people in homes and businesses and when many were still using dialup services to get online. People on Usenet didn't hesitate to chide someone when a participant wrote a one-word or one-sentence comment which didn't really add anything to a discussion, or quoted someone else's post in its entirely before adding their own brief comment in response to only one tiny segment of the previous post. Administrators and Moderators in the early days of web-based discussion forums also would remind members to be mindful of Netiquette.
Somehow, somewhere along the way Netiquette has definitely fallen by the wayside as more and more people have gotten online, bandwidth isn't an issue any more, and there are multiple devices with which to get online in the first place. This has absolutely been a major factor in the continuous flowing of information and communication that is readily available at our fingertips: too easy now to pull out one's iPhone and fire off a fast text to a family member or a friend asking a question or passing on a silly joke.....not to mention sharing via text or on Instagram or FB meaningless photos of one's breakfast, lunch or dinner while sitting at a meal.
I find texts more annoying than emails, as there is something so instantaneous and compelling about that text plopping into my device(s) along with the awareness of the other person being on the other end, there in real time so that I feel as though I must respond immediately, whether or not it is actually something all that important. Emails come in, I read them and if I've got the time and am in the mood to respond immediately, fine, but if not they can usually wait. Of course I am retired so am not dealing with work-related emails, which makes a huge difference! Anything really urgent, of course, should be conveyed either in a text or a phone call.