DVD-RAM != DVD
DVD-RAM is totally incompatable with about 90% of the DVD drives out there, DVD-Rom Drives included.
Only some drives made by Panasonic, Toshiba, and Hitachi will read DVD-RAM discs.
For some DVD specifics....
The later ( Type 2 ) discs can be removed from the caddy that they come in. This gives the user a disc that will physically fit in a drive. If you look at a DVD RAM disc out of the case, compared to a DVD disc, you will see that there are hash marks all over the DVD-RAM disc. This sector layout is predetermined, to allow for data allocation, and much higher performace for data storage. In some respects, this is close to the way a hard drive is layed out. While I have not looked into the specs of the format, I suspect that this layout is an attribute of a combination CAV and CLV spinout. This visualisation shows that even the very base format of DVD-RAM has no similarity to DVD. DVD has a sequential track that is pure CLV. DVD +R and -R follow this sector layout, matching the characteristics of DVD.
I may have jumped ahead here a little for those who are not sure what exactly CLV and CAV are.
CAV ( Constant Angular Velocity ) This techinque of reading a disc keeps a disc at a constant speed. As the laser moves towards the outer edge, the data thoughput increases, as the bits pass by the laser faster ( assuming that the bits always take the same amount of disc real-estate ). If the bit rate is required to remain constant, the bits consume more real-estate per bit, as the platter is spins faster at the outer edges. This technique has the advantage allowing faster access times, as the spindle never needs to be recalibrated for a particular read rate. You may get less data per disc if a constant bit rate is required.
CLV ( Constant Linear Velocity ) This technique keeps the data rate constant. As the laser starts to move to the outside, the platter slows. This keeps the bit rate constant, and the bits on the platter all the same size, giving maximum data storage capacity. The problem with this is that access can take a penalty, as the spindle must speed up or slow down to keep a certain bit rate, and the disc must be re-synced before a read can happen. In this fashion, the number of sectors increase on each track.
Within these two recording schemes you can see on DVD-RAM how there are steps suggesting that the platter spins at a constant rate for a while, the sudenly slows a little, then resumes a constant speed. At one point Laserdisc called this CAA, though the acronym for this escapes me. With DVD-RAM, you can see the sector layout on the platter with the naked eye, DVD uses CLV, you see no sector layout on the discs at all.
In all of this techno-babble, I hope that people see that DVD-RAM has no commonality to DVD in anything other than name. In short. DVD-RAM discs can only be played in drives programmed specifically to read them. With DVD+/-R, the reader, however, does not need to have a clue of what a recordable disc is.
Hope this helps, and if it doesn't let me know so I can stop replying at 11PM.
Max