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Okay it suddenly worked with both my 12.9 inch iPad Pro and the iPad mini 6 without any change of settings. Weird!
At the bottom it is my MacBook Pro, connected to an external 27 inch 4K monitor via USB-C on top, then the iPad Pro on the left and the iPad mini on the right. Interesting that I had to move the cursor up to the external display first, then move left or right to push the cursor into the iPads. I can't drag the iPads down to the sides of the MacBook Pro in the Display settings as shown above.