I challenge you to find a HW/SW combo where the manufacturer sells the SW individually but forces you to buy their hardware from them even though it's nearly identical to the hardware found in the store. If you do, then we'll talk.
Apple isn't guilty until proven innocent here - it's the other way around. Until you can provide evidence that Apple is actually breaking the law your emotional appeals aren't going to convince anyone. You are the one that needs to provide a precedent that we can use to show that Apple is doing something illegal.
I own a copy of OS X which I purchased legally from an Apple store. For hardware, I want Abit's motherboard, Intel's Q6600, and OCZ's RAM. If I were to abide by Apple's EULA, the companies whose hardware I want would not get the sales they deserve. Instead, I would be forced to buy Apple's hardware, an unrelated product that I don't want and doesn't deserve my purchase of it.
So what? This may be a personal tragedy for you, but you are not putting forth any argument that Apple is breaking the law here. You are essentially insisting that Apple allow you to create the system you want, or else they are breaking the law...
...oddly enough, all this bile has been generated by Apple's attempt to make the Mac more open in the first place. People like you were nowhere to be found during the PPC years, a period I'd guess you'd describe as Apple's irrelevant years anyway. But now that they've gone Intel, matured OS X, and released BootCamp, switchers are unwilling to let go of the hardware choices they had in the PC world. Fair enough, I sympathize on that point, but you go too far in characterizing it as a wrong committed against you, the consumer, by Apple.