IMAP Front end for gmail
What I have done for this is to set up an IMAP front end for GMail. What this means is that I have all my gmail forwarded to an IMAP account (say AOL). I then set up that account in mail.app and iPhone but I make sure the smtp server is gmail's so everything looks as if it is being sent from
gmail but I get the sync advantages of IMAP and gmail has a copy of all my mail in case I am without access to my phone or mac. I never really cared for IMAP until I got an iPhone but now I see its advantages; however at this stage everyone knows my gmail address and I don't want to give that up. So this is my best of both worlds solution - and surprisingly it works flawlessly. Though i don't use aol mail, I did get this solution to work with it.
What I have done for this is to set up an IMAP front end for GMail. What this means is that I have all my gmail forwarded to an IMAP account (say AOL). I then set up that account in mail.app and iPhone but I make sure the smtp server is gmail's so everything looks as if it is being sent from
gmail but I get the sync advantages of IMAP and gmail has a copy of all my mail in case I am without access to my phone or mac. I never really cared for IMAP until I got an iPhone but now I see its advantages; however at this stage everyone knows my gmail address and I don't want to give that up. So this is my best of both worlds solution - and surprisingly it works flawlessly. Though i don't use aol mail, I did get this solution to work with it.