have you thought about blended essential oils instead ?
tend to smell less intense , just a hint when close to person.
Sandalwood, cinnamon, wintergreen etc.
Bottom line: I've NEVER worn cologne for any extended period. I had a girlfriend once who liked a particular scent (can't remember which one), but I had to wash it off after a few hours. It just irritated my olfactory senses too much. I'm extremely sensitive when it comes to smells so I'm wondering if there is a cologne out there for men that is fairly mild.
I did try that but my skin reacted badly. My sister told me I should have diluted the oils with something else beforehand... this was years ago, mind. Great idea though so long as it's not patchouli.😀
So here's what I'm going to do: I'm going to write down (copy and paste) all the suggestions here and see if I can get samples of them this weekend. The only way to really get a sense of these is to try them out.
With the Armani Mania I recommended, it really does smell brilliant, however spray it on your skin (such as your arm). After an hour, smell the area you sprayed. I think you'll agree it's a lovely aftershave!
I am uncertain if this comes in EDT and aftershave form. I have the EDT, which is stronger than the aftershave. This fragrance is not very strong though.
I once was given a large jar of cologne as a gift many years ago. Not being familiar with cologne at the time, I didn't realize how strongly scented they normally were. Oops. I got a few unflattering comments, let's put it that way. 😀
Fast forward years later. Having forgotten about the strongness, having not used cologne since the first and only time years before... I splashed some on, not realizing how strong it was. More unflattering comments ensued at a community event. I got mad and went home to take a shower to get rid of it then went somewhere else that evening.
So, that's the only two times I've worn cologne. I think it's just often too overpowering by default to be worth wearing. Aftershave is about it for me. 😀 I do look forward to seeing recommendations for mild colognes, though.
Maybe you just need to learn how much you should be wearing? Splashing it on is just a bad idea.
It's called Sex Panther by Odeon