What I would personally like is an open and positive discussion (with people who try to put their egos aside) about the true reasons Apple products are considered better (by the ones who feel that way of course).
Yeah, lots of people tend to wrap up their identity with their device/equipment choices, and you won't find a lot of cogent discussion on such topics. That was as true twenty years ago as it is today. I've used Apple and PC products since the Apple ][+ and IBM PC XT were current models so I have a little bit of "time in the saddle" with both...
"Better" is really a vague term, as so many people have different needs, interests, and budgets. What best fits my situation may not be what best fits yours and vice versa. We could argue all day long and resolve not a thing, since each of us is 100% right for our individual situation.
In the past I enjoyed all the tinkering and fiddling and built many of my own PCs, partially because money was much tighter then. In recent years though I just don't care as much about the guts and inner workings. I'm more interested in just using the software I want to use and prefer the box that's running it to be "invisible". Money's much less an issue now too.
Really, if you're looking for compute-power-per-dollar, Apple's hardware isn't where you need to be looking.
Personally, I enjoy the simple platform interoperability of macOS and iOS. I can easily switch around between phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop as I wish. While this interoperability can be cobbled together on Android/Windows to some degree, it's not as "clean" of a solution, especially for the non-techies in my family. So that's largely the reason I use Apple products these days. I have no "loyalty" to Apple per-se other than they're the one's currently providing the best-fit platform for what I want to do these days. If someone comes up with an overall platform that does a smoother/simpler/better job of letting me do what I want to do I'll definitely consider switching.
In terms of hardware build quality, generally speaking my anecdotal observation is that Apple's laptops and PCs have been roughly equivalent component/build quality to business class Windows laptops and PCs. All of which has been a step above consumer-grade price-focused gear.
With all this said, what's right for me isn't necessarily what's right for you. That's something only you can really decide. "Better" is a subjective individual thing.