I'm really steamed about this but I keep wondering what the possibility is that he is not lying and someone opened up the box and siphoned the iphone while it was in transit. I've heard reports of people having their new iphones arrive only to be an empty box. I am trying to predict how likely it would be that someone would open up a non-descript box looking for an iPhone.
It was only an iPhone so the box weight was a pound so that would probaly be rounded up to a pound even if it was empty.
I insured it via fedex. Does anyone know if they will refund any or all of my money?
Also eBay said they will refund the buyer the money as soon as he returns my phone. But he says he has no phone. So how does that work. If he doesn't have it, how can he return it?
Well that is the whole point of the insurance - if the item gets lost or damaged in transit. I've never had to file a claim though, so I don't know precisely how it works.
I guess I was just pretty lucky...just sold my 3GS 32gb for $441 and the buyer immediately gave positive feedback upon receiving it. But yes, as others have said, ebay does in theory have seller protection as well if you ship to a confirmed paypal address, get signature confirmation, and insure it.
Is this guy in America? Was it a confirmed paypal address? What is his feedback? (on my auction I said explicit that people with fewer than 5 feedback would have to contact me first in order to bid or I would cancel their bids...seemed to ward off most low feedbacked people)