Yes last night I had completed all that you mentioned and ensured bluetooth and wifi setup was correct before going to bed. This morning the options were still not present; therefore, I called Apple technical support. The technician walked me through the same checkpoints as listed in this thread (great job forum contributors!) . The technician also had me check all settings on both watch and phone. We still could not get the options to show to allow Siri to talk. So, my Siri still isn't talking. A bug report was submitted and now I must wait, unless we can identify a resolution on this forum.