Slut

[fairnymph]

By the way, I just took a look at your profile and I have to say, you got me going koo koo for cocoa puffs up in here! My goodness you're a good looking woman.

And, yes, I try that line on all the girls.

Thanks I was sad the pic was so little. Damn this forum. (Yes, I'm an exhibitionist...)

That line is terrible, lol.

 

[itcheroni]

Ehh, perhaps I'm shallower than you, but I don't think looks can be completely overcome. Looks DO matter, to an extent, for alot of people at least. If you're a hideous troll, I don't care how great your personality is, it's not going to work for me. If you're just sort of average looking, but are otherwise awesome, then we have a potential recipe for success.

I didn't mean completely, I just meant in most cases. No matter how dynamic an octogenarian is, I just don't think I could do it.

I'll check out Nina Hartley.

Check out the stuff she's actually in charge of. She's made a lot of standard fare, but the newer stuff is delectable.

 

[173080]

I just don't understand how someone else dresses effects you or your girlfriend. There are situations where something may be inappropriate, like with young children around, but, other than that, what's the harm?

And though I do understand your point about objectifying them, but don't you find it ironic that you think they should feel forced to cover themselves up? That they shouldn't feel free to dress as they please?

It's bothersome because they perpetuate the idea of "I am a woman showing some skin so that people look at me and I can feel special."

Also, being a "slut" is not only about the clothing, it has an attitude associated with it. A woman can wear reasonable revealing clothing and remain classy; it all depends on how she does it, when, and if she acts gracefully.

The sluts may think that they're exercising their "freedom" to dress however they want, but in the end it's nothing more than an ego boost.

But then again, we live in different regions. Things may be different.

 

[Swarmlord]

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I think part of why women tend to attack porn is because many of us don't really like it (though many of us do, it's not the overwhelming majority that it seems to be in men), so we don't really understand it. I get, objectively, why porn appeals to people, but subjectively I find it incomprehensible - I can't relate at all. The best I can do is relate it to my enjoyment of written erotica, which I enjoy very much.

I'll check out Nina Hartley.

I wish I knew how many that participate in the "on camera" part of it actually enjoy it or just don't care as opposed to the number that are victimized or through circumstances find that it's the only way they can pay their bills.

 

[fairnymph]

It's bothersome because they perpetuate the idea of "I am a woman showing some skin so that people look at me and I can feel special."

Also, being a "slut" is not only about the clothing, it has an attitude associated with it. A woman can wear reasonable revealing clothing and remain classy; it all depends on how she does it, when, and if she acts gracefully.

The sluts may think that they're exercising their "freedom" to dress however they want, but in the end it's nothing more than an ego boost.

But then again, we live in different regions. Things may be different.

Why is she necessarily doing it to feel special? And if she is, what's wrong with that? Why is beauty any less of a virtue than intelligence or wit?

 

[173080]

Why is she necessarily doing it to feel special? And if she is, what's wrong with that? Why is beauty any less of a virtue than intelligence or wit?

There is the slutty way and the classy way of doing it. Like I said, it's more than just what a woman is wearing.

I noticed my girlfriend because of her elegance.

 

[fairnymph]

There is the slutty way and the classy way of doing it. Like I said, it's more than just what a woman is wearing.

I noticed my girlfriend because of her elegance.

Fair enough. Sort of like well versus badly applied makeup. I can dig that.