Depends on where you’re coming from. Being an Android user, even the Xs feels somewhat small as most Android phones have been in the 6” or larger size for a few years. But I can see iPhone users who had only used the 5s or older feeling the phone a bit large.Honestly my iPhone xs I had briefly wasn’t a horrible size and didn’t feel much different from my 11/xr which are bigger
I played with the mini some time ago, and it feels very solid. It’s hard to imagine how Apple managed to compress everything that small. But then for typing it’s a bit annoying because it just feels too cramped. Apple regular 12/12 Pro feels more comfortable. Once you go big, it’s hard to go small for typing.