Every version of every OS known to mankind is the "worst" to someone. Individuals have a poor experience and expect that everyone else is having an equally poor experience. Maybe the OS is truly to blame, maybe there are other factors. One way or the other, there aren't enough tales of woe to classify this version of macOS as any worse than any previous version I can recall.
No this is not the case. I am not running some odd software or doing some odd things in macOS. I just had another freeze this morning. If I have any external monitors connected, even with an eGPU, and try to do a long FCPX export (10 hours) to where my computer goes to sleep, I get crashes and freezes.
High Sierra, this NEVER happens. This is a common issue too. Something with the display drivers and sleeping. Older systems seem to be fine, it seems like a Vega driver issue. And if you do not have multiple monitors, it doesn't seem to happen much either. If I don't let my computer go to sleep, I can use FCPX all day without any lockups.
I always upgrade the day it is available to the public. I never had any issues for years. This is the only time I have had issues where it is causing my ability to work to have a problem.
Windows ME is known for bugs and crashes and instability. Just like this OS. I think it has been reported to Apple and they are working on a fix for this issue. So its not like there is no issue.