I can help you rationalize or justify your purchase.Like yourself I have been wanting an all SS watch since the original Apple Watch. I have never even been able to really justify the SS watch but this year I decided to treat myself. Then after doing that I thought 'I may as well go all in' and I ordered the link bracelet too - I have more money now than when the first Apple Watch came out and my thinking was that if I don't do it now I probably never will. The pricing is still outrageous in my opinion but we only get one life and one chance to do the things that we want to do. In my opinion if you can afford it without causing any financial issues such as bills etc then why the hell not? We never know when our time is up.
Despite being the most expensive band (pretty much) it's my daily driver because before the Apple Watch existed I used to have stainless steel watches so it just feel's right to me. I think maybe in the summer I may need to pop an extra link on due my wrist swelling. However from day to day there is no need to adjust it at all, its very comfortable.
The weight is noticeable, but only just about. and I have just come from an Aluminium S4 with sports band. They are not as heavy as some people claim, just more substantial but in a good way.