I dont get where you are going, you agree the revolution was napster but then follow it up with diatribe about how apple did it. They copied!!! Even amongst hard core apple fans iTunes is lambasted as the worst thing ever.
Sept 1998? see the middle!!
or the later ones...
Or the B&O’s Beosound from the year before the iPod release - wow, that looks erm.... kinda like a??
Hell i can't be bothered to paste the images, so take a look..
http://anythingbutipod.com/2008/03/10th-anniversay-of-the-mp3-player/
Credit where credit is due, he made it legal, but that was based on the timing as i hinted at above and the musics industries desire to save itself.
I get on well with all my bosses and can sit down and express issue and opportunities, and yes i work in tech that's also based in the valley.