A film shot with the big screen in mind should be seen on a big screen ( ideally )
Also, the theater experience can vary wildly from one country to another. I can't stand going to film theaters in North America anymore. In contrast, most film theaters here in Paris ( and other european cities I've been to ) are just fantastic. The seats are clean and comfortable, the sound/image is top notch, people are mostly very disciplined and quiet, and more importantly :
ALMOST NO ONE EATS POPCORN IN THE THEATER ( or even worse, hot dogs, wich don't even exists in theaters here), and thank God, cause I just feel like strangling them right there. Most of the time, almost no one eats or even drinks anything at all. It's very much frown upon here to eat during a movie. If you wanna drink or eat, go to a freaking restaurant or café.
So the the film theater experience here is very much enjoyable.
Love your post and I feel exactly the same way. I attend screenings frequently at the Museum of the Moving Image here in NYC, where I am a member, and LOVE the fact the no food or beverages are allowed in the theatre (and their larger theatre is a brilliant cinema space. The best in the city.) Still some people selfishly sneak in crap (though very few) and I want to kick them in the back of the head. What part of "no food and drink allowed" do they not understand? On the other hand Filmlinc (Film Society of Lincoln Center) sells popcorn in their theatres and I hate it. Hate the smell especially. Bottled water is the only thing I can tolerate being allowed in.
P.S. I love Paris. Along with New York and San Francisco, it's one of my three favorite cities. Do you ever visit La Cinémathèque Française?
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