(plus I can't draw so I'd need to find someone else to handle that part).
I feel your pain. Same here. The coding part is rather easy; but a nice content is beyond my skills.
(plus I can't draw so I'd need to find someone else to handle that part).
There's actually a number of things I wished I could do but the lack of both Time and talent mean they're just pipe dreams at this point.
Play the piano/guitar (I'm tone deaf so this is a talent issue)
Restore a muscle car (not all that mechanically gifted but I lack the time to invest along with no money)
Having no musical knowledge I did this last week.
There are some interesting goals here.
Whatever your goals or dreams are, I've got one piece of advice for you:
Start on them. Today.
If you want to learn the guitar - pull it out of the closet, pick up some sheet music, or a scale diagram, or fire up some YouTube videos - and start playing. You'll probably suck at first. You'll probably suck for months - but you'll get better. And nothing ever felt better than the first time your playing starts to sound like music.
If you dream of writing apps, or juggling five balls, or whatever - start today. Stop making excuses about how busy you are.
If you have a job or a family situation that really does make learning a complicated new skill impractical, then scale back your expectations. Maybe put aside or change your goal. But never stop learning.
To able to sew and sculpt to cosplay. I did some rudimentary make ups and crude costumes a decade ago, but the level of work today fans produce just boggles my mind.
Since you are/were into cosplay, I'm gonna assume you're an anime fan. To regular folks the following advices will be absurd, but to anime fans it's genius. Go train in the mountains.
My son couldn't draw a stick figure to save his life. So I took my son to the mountains and had him chop wood. Chopping wood is the ultimate form of training for anything, since it trains the mind, body AND soul.
Anyhow... several thousand logs later he still can't draw.
A least now the crazy hermit artist agreed to give him lessons in thanks for supplying several years worth of firewood.
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Start my business
Decorate my house
Put dry wall in my basement.
Put carpet on my stairs
Gardening
Put patio stones in my backyard
Paint my house
Learn to swim
Master 3DS Max
Learn photography
Get back to equestrian
I can go on but I don't have time.![]()