I am in a similar situation. I always preferred the regular size Pro iPhone, but vision loss got me experimenting with friends' Max phones. The Max size seems OK and I will be buying one next week. FWIW I do have XL size hands, and also use AirPods Pro and the Apple Watch Ultra for many functions, allowing the iPhone to stay mostly pocketed anyway.I’m planning to get a new iPhone this September and leaning towards a Pro Max, although have some concerns around the size. Those who own or used to own one, did you find it OK for daily use? Was it too big?
I’ll be upgrading from iPhone X.
Rather then down size, Screen Time starts to be bullet proof, i only have 5 min in certain apps and web sites per dayI had 5, 6S+, X, 11PM, 12P, and am currently on 13PM. I think I'll revert to regular size iPhone whenever I upgrade, if not go mini route. I have found the 13PM to be fine and love the battery life, still strong after two years. I mainly want to reduce my phone usage, so I'm looking into less expensive and smaller models for that reason. But if you can't tell from device history, I'm indecisive. If Apple made an iPhone the size of iPad mini I'd buy it in a heartbeat.
I had the iPhone 6 Plus, 6s Plus, and 7 Plus before moving to the XR, then 11 Pro, and currently 13 Pro. I am moving back up to the 15 Pro Max this year. I miss the larger display and nearly immediately regretted not getting the 13 Pro Max when my wife’s Gold 13 Pro Max arrives.I was a huge "hater" of big phones in the past. I had a iPhone 4 and was concerned when I was planning on getting the iPhone 6 back in 2014. Told myself, ok this is a alright size but ill never move to a Plus phone.
Moved eventually to an iPhone X and then the XS Max came out and decided to take a leap and try it. Told myself, "if anything iPhones hold their value so well, I wont lose much money if I downgrade to a smaller iPhone". Took me 3 weeks and i fell in love with the size. Of course not as easy to use on hand as the smaller models, but I still manage pretty well.
Now on the iPhone 13 Pro Max and there is no chance I'll ever move to a smaller iPhone. I looked at the 14 Pro at a store a few days ago and i kid you not if someone told me that 14 Pro was actually the new iPhone Pro Mini, I would have believed you. I cant believe I used phones so small before.
SO, id defintely recommend you give the size a try for atleast a couple of weeks to a month.