If iOS & OS X bother you so much then why don't you just go to Android, or WP and Windows 8.1? I'm not trying to provoke you; it's a serious question.
If iOS or OS X gave me so many issues, I'd switch in a second. Yes, there are a few things that I don't like about both but nothing is perfect, and nothing is a deal-breaker... So I choose not to switch.
I switched to Apple for a reason. They make Great products.
Bugs are the problem not the device. Yes I would like a bigger phone screen and a touch screen Laptop and a iPad with a keyboard and track pad.
I use my computer, Phone, iPad for Work and Home use. The devices I have worked perfectly under IOS 6 and Mountain Lion. Not all devices show the same problems, so you may not see what many are having issues with. I tend to use my devices more than the average person and expect more from Apple because I know what they have consistently done in the past.
If Apple allowed people to easily switch back to previous OS version I wouldn't be so vocal but since they don't I have to sit and wait to get my iMap email problems, Safari crashes and App store load issues resolved.
To me these issues mean I loose money and enjoyment of using my products.
I paid more for Apple products because they are the best, I expect them to live up to what they should be.
Hopefully the patches will be out soon, its been a long wait.