How are men favored at all in post-secondary when there's a nearly 2:1 ratio of graduates at all levels and it's rapidly increasing? Do you have any idea how many female-only scholarships there are, especially in STEM? On top of that, there's the hiring bias in favor of women in STEM (in addition to affirmative action). You also overlook that most hiring is done by women (this isn't exclusive to STEM).
https://www.insidehighered.com/news...sts-stem-faculty-hiring-favors-women-over-men
WRT "privilege".. what about how Asians could be considered over-represented in the high-tech fields and they have the highest median income by a long shot in N.A. Does that "privilege" interest you? Are you also interested in dealing with the many inequalities where men are very disadvantaged (such as family court or prison sentencing)? It seems the focus is on being entitled to the comfortable, safe, high paying jobs with regular hours, benefits, holidays, pensions, etc. I won't hold my breathe to hear about lack of women in sewage treatment, waste management, roadworks, roofing, oil rigs, etc... I suppose those men can just keep their "privilege."
Your hateful views and completely broken concept of "privilege" isn't going to help anyone. You aren't advocating equality of opportunity, but equality of outcome (which isn't always realistic in a free society).
You want more women in STEM? Help drive up the interest in young women/girls to take that route.