I'm 100% with you on that, right up until the point where your convenience takes away my choices.Completely disagree. If I can outsource the security to Apple for relatives that's a good thing. They won't and shouldn't be good at security and privacy. Apple should help them with that.
Some people want to teach people to repair stuff or grow their own food. I prefer to outsource almost every aspect of my life from getting a haircut to washing my car.
I'm sorry that your family is dumb, I really am, but that's not my fault or my problem.