Even smart lights, much less any of the other smart home stuff, are still not for people that aren’t prepared to futz around with it at least once a year, probably more.
As expensive as it is, Hue is best for this because of the hub. But I’ve even started having trouble with some Hue bulbs lately that are only a bit over a year old.
I'm actually coming to the conclusion that an unexpected brand, Ikea, is usually the best choice in this space! They're not sexy, but they are cheap and they have mostly made the right choices time after time.
Especially with their second iteration (the new Digera hub replacing the old Tradfri hub) almost all the most irritating parts of the old system (especially the totally non-intuitive business of having to set up remotes before devices) is now gone.
With Ikea you get
- a "reasonable" priced hub. Not cheap, but in line with everyone else. And the reliability of the hub design (radios are zigbee).
- remarkably cheap smart plugs (big and ugly, but cheap $15, and they work well), likewise cheap bulbs (a lot of variety in styles, and white dimmable at just $11 to full color at $22.) The only thing they are missing, IMHO, is a slot between white dimmable and full color that's white ambient (ie variable temperature), but hell their full color is cheaper than a Hue ambiance.
Likewise cheap smart buttons and motion detectors.
But the real killer is that they have reasonably priced blinds that work REALLY well. Lightweight, easy to install, easy to recharge (in my case about once every six months) and reliable.
- the THIRD great Ikea feature is that they have a variety of "remotes" that are "dedicated" (meaning not really 'smart') but are cheap. It's cheap (and easy with the new hub) to place a dedicated remote next to each item (group of lights, blinds, whatever) and have them just work like a traditional switch. You now have the best of both worlds, with manual controls (for when that makes sense, or for guests) along with smart home automation. So, eg, in my house, the lights or blinds operate intelligently (lights based on light levels and occupancy in the room, blinds based on sun position and how hot it is outside) but a guest can override those with a manual button.
And they play really nicely with HomeKit. (Just be careful not to get their three-color bulbs which are cheaper than full color, but can only be set to cool, medium or warm white, and so can't be optimally controlled by HomeKit, just get either the white dimmable or full color depending on your needs).
I'd recommend Ikea over the various alternatives for almost all use cases.
(I can't comment on their sound stuff, brand name Symfonisk; that I haven't used at all.)