Perhaps you should try to see this from our point of view then. Don’t you think it is “hurtful” to see the US tell us we should be grateful to you for what you did for us the past century, while you **** all over the history of the past millennium? You want to talk about “hurtful”, while saying Denmark, who lost more people per capita in US wars the last three decades than US did, is a “bad partner”?
Denmark, by the way, did not take back all the ground we lost to Germany in 1864, when we had the chance after WWI. Instead, we held an election to allow the people living there to decide whether they wanted to be Danish or German. Just like Greenland is free to become it’s own country as soon as they themselves decides to (which they do far haven’t, because they can’t function without the support from Denmark). We should be “grateful” to US that you didn’t forcefully take over the world when you had the chance, extending the most deadly war in history into a world destroying one? Give me a break.
It’s exactly this kind of American arrogance combined with ignorance, that makes the rest of the world despise you instead of admire you, and is right now hurting America from the inside.