I just finished the book a couple days ago, and I found it pretty interesting. I do think that, as a reader who knew Jobs eventually passed away from the illness he was trying to hide, that it could be addressed in a grander and more thorough scope. It would have been nice to have that entire story arc as one long chapter.
I did find that Job's own personal statement about his legacy was particularly touching. You could see, in the raw, a man that felt he had a lot to offer humanity. It was clear that egos be damned, and his family would even suffer from is inattentiveness. But he would end up influencing the world in a way few people ever have. He really is in select company.
What I find the hardest to come to terms with, concerning his personality, is his rudeness. I think he could have been just as successful without scathing person attacks. I think a lot of people might point to that and say "see, Steve was an ******, so that's how good businesses are built." But I think it's more complex. I think he could have been just as effective, making hard decisions and giving people "bad news" without the intentionally wounding comments. But, sadly, that is how he probably insulated his own extremely insecure inner person from the world. He didn't know any other way. That doesn't mean it can't be done any other way. And that last summary of his life, in his own words, at the end of the book really brought to light why. It's worth the read.
Doubtful we will ever get inside the family. It was Steve's most valued request to leave them alone.
Walter will not attempt anything other than perhaps something like "Steve's Last 24hrs."
Maybe the sister will reveal more about the alleged "Oh My God" from Steve at the moment of passing. Who knows.
Just leave Laurene, Reed, Eve, and Erin alone for at least the 1st year.
Walter gets it.![]()
That in and of itself, sums up the "others" in this narcissists life. Like his key notes, they were props to make him look good.His family was barely mentioned.
I feel he needs to tighten it up first -- it's too repetitious. Then once he gets it down to the 200-300 pages of content it *really* has, perhaps add some technical content.
Who said anything about a conspiracy theory? Is euthanasia for terminal cancer so inconceivable to you that you would consider it a conspiracy? It's easier for you believe that he died 24 hours after the most anticipated tech media event of the year?
Strange
Mere months away there was all praise for Steve here on this forum and now there's a lot of hate.
Steve might have not been the easiest guy in the world but if he wasn't what he was then all the Apple stuff wouldn't be that great as it is now. Only the best was good enough for steve and that made Apple what it is now.
He might have not been the nicest guy when He was in the business but who says He wasn't a nice family guy at home?
To Me he is still what he was, a great man.
I'd agree with that ... His rude behavior was always an issue that reared its head randomly, whenever the spotlight was on him. It's definitely an aspect of his character that people tolerated (or sometimes, made excuses for) because he accomplished so much, rather than an aspect that was beneficial.
I get the idea that if you could have asked Jobs about it, he would have rationalized it away as "doing people a favor" in a "tough love" manner. Perhaps it's a little bit like the stereotypical military concept that in order to make a great solider, you have to first tear the person down completely.
It's fine to want to make great stuff, but the man was a grade A ass. Virtually everybody in his life is wounded by him (and I'll leave out his personal life for the moment and keep it professional) -- Woz, a lot of other early Apple guys, Sculley (who was once his man-crush), even Jonny Ive is a little miffed at the way Steve took credit for his ideas. So far it seems the only major player who didn't suffer the bruises was Lasseter.
In some ways, he couldn't bust the status quo as he did in so many industries if he weren't so hard headed -- but did he need to be a porcupine to everybody? Just about everybody who was important to him professionally ends up frozen out and scarred. Again Woz is the perfect example and remained very bittersweet about Jobs. Jobs was a callous user, and as you can see by the list of the injured it was easy to go from rock star to frozen-out garbage.
All you have to do is look at how he treated his daughter Lisa and you know all you need to know. His other kids were basically abandoned too, but to work. The man did not spend time with his family. Each child got to go on one vacation with him as a "congratulations you're an adult" celebration. He softened as he got older but he was not Mr. Dad by any means.
It's much more simple than that. He was a narcissist. He doesn't think about other people, only himself. People are things to be used.
At least by the book it seems that when his parents told him he was special because they chose him for adoption, it ended up having the unintended consequence of over-consolence and gave the man a god complex. He simultaneously had fear of abandonment issues (which is probably what made him such a sensitive child, how many meetings did he cry in?) and a callous narcissism that made him detached and aloof.
He wasn't just a narcissist, he was a psychopath. Not all people with psychopathy are serial killers, most of them make great CEOs. Not giving a damn about people and craving power and control are handy attributes for running a massive business.
I have been saying this all along. He was a psychopath. His parents should be sainted.
The book revealed a Jobs who was only a rumor to most of us. It seems that this was a shock to many people who thought he was some kindly hippie.
The market for a technical study of Apple is relatively small, but we can expect unauthorized biographies and some of them will be more technical. We can also expect at least one that attempts to prop up his image, written by a "fan boy".
Frankly, Apple is in a more adult and rational place now. It should be an interesting few years of transition and we will see after that...
Haven't read the biography but I'm interested in knowing more about the circumstances surrounding his death. Maybe it's only me, but I thought it was a bit too tidy of a coincidence that he passed away the morning immediately after the iPhone 4S announcement. I've wondered if he actually passed away beforehand, or more significantly, if he euthanized himself. It's a topic a lot of people don't like to think about, but there seems to a growing awareness of it: http://newoldage.blogs.nytimes.com/2011/10/26/the-next-death-with-dignity-battleground/ . No judgement on my part - I support one's right to decide.
If either of these happened, I wouldn't be too surprised. Jobs was the ultimate control freak and I could imagine that he would do anything in his considerable power to make sure his death didn't overshadow any Apple announcements.
Not giving a damn about people and craving power and control are handy attributes for running a massive business.
Well, I'd say those attributes are handy for clawing over others to the top
They don't let someone actually run a business, though, which is why Jobs surrounded himself with people who could.
I love Steve Jobs, his story is special and I felt connected for reasons I cannot address in this forum.
To Me he is still what he was, a great man.
Lol. You LOVE Steve Jobs.
Eh... well... let's put it this way, I don't love him like I love say... Luba Shumeyko...![]()
How google of him... a beta masquerading as finished.
The more I hear and read about Jobs, the less I think of him as a visionary and pioneer, and more of a facilitator.
And one hell of a marketer,
The way he froze people out (including Woz)... The way he just pretended things he didn't like (such as his daughter or his cancer) didn't exist.
It's a complex story, because there was definitely some business saavy and lessons to be learned, but Steve really was not a good person.