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You can remove Calendar from the CarPlay interface. On your phone go to Settings > General > CarPlay > {select car} > Customize and rove Calendar.
Gah!!!! They changed it! I knew about this spot in the settings, and I sent feedback to Apple. They must have listened, b/c this is definitely new. Thanks!
 
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