Hey guys so iv been wondering, and I cant't really answer this my self as I have never experienced what it's like to be fat, I'm 22 years old and thankfully with a super fast motabalsim, however I am very green and dont't fast food, I'll probably have your typical fish and chips once every 2-3 weeks and I absolutely despise places such as KFC and Mcdonalds (their food that is). But what's boggled me lately is, fat people, I see slot of large women and alot of very large women (men to of course) and I can't help but think, is it their fault? Now as bad as it sounds I want to avoid talking about the comfort eaters here because obviously it is their fault they get fat unfortunately but what about the ones who don't seem to eat a lot or don't appear to eat a lot wqhen your with them but are still large? I have a few large friends and when I'm with them they eat fine, intact I eat WAY more than they do for instance but they are still fat so my question is, is it their fault? Must they eat secretly a lot behind closed doors? Or is it that their just naturally fat? I'm just confused with it all because yeah iv seen the super fat people in fast food chains and I can't help but think, are you stupid? But then iv seen people who are healthy and eat less than me but are still quite big and I just can't undetan. So please guys, help me understand if you can : ) Thanks. Sorry for spelling typed this on an IPad late at night .