LOL, this topic reminds me of High School - I was always fixing relationships. 
Eric,
Just ask her if you're still friends; direct approach is quite often the best. I don't see someone throwing a ten-year long relationship out the window cuz that person is in a romantic relationship. If you've been friends that long, you shouldn't have any problem expressing how you feel about this whole situation. Just tell her what's on your mind.

Eric,
Just ask her if you're still friends; direct approach is quite often the best. I don't see someone throwing a ten-year long relationship out the window cuz that person is in a romantic relationship. If you've been friends that long, you shouldn't have any problem expressing how you feel about this whole situation. Just tell her what's on your mind.