Long time reader, but I thought I’d contribute here.
If I recall,
@Apple fanboy daughter was killed or passed away during Christmas years ago. He’s openly discussed this on the “What’s on your mind” thread, however; I think that’s why he has such a strong distain for Christmas, because she left during a very celebrated holiday, and he hates anything to do with the holiday itself. Very sad.
As for giving. I’ve just resorted to gift cards. Especially with the likes of restaurants, and online shopping, I just find it more convenient for people to purchase what they want, when they want.