Do you have a link to that? Sapphire has a higher light refracting index then glass.
While I don't know the tech used that's like saying lead is lighter then wood. Technically that could be true depending on quantity but only in the proper context.
Drop pressure stress and failures has been proven time and time again. Not sure where you got that information, it's not even close.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7Qtp6Iv7a0&t=29m38s
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5zt1V7H88I&t=2m5s
In both of these videos apple talks about how it allows better images and allows for a clearer image, meaning more light comes through.
Glass is known to have a weak molecular structure, which is why it breaks easier when dropped, other materials don't have this weakness.