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Discussion in 'Community Discussion' started by 7on, Mar 16, 2007.
What is meant when girls say "I don't deserve you?"
well...hopefully it means "i am so happy i have you and i can't imagine what i've done to deserve being loved by someone so wonderful."
that's what i mean when i say it to my husband, anyways.
EDIT: unless she's trying to break up with you....then it's just an excuse for leaving.
they just had multiple orgasms to your one.
I believe that would be a compliment. Were it "You don't deserve me", then I would be worried. Also, if she says "Remember when I said don't worry about it? Yeah, it was gonorrhea." - worry some more.
They mean, "I may have sinned against humanity, but I certainly did nothing to deserve being stuck with you!"
Oh Wait!! Maybe that is only when they are talking to me.
If they snuggle with you afterward, it means a good thing. If they keep distant, it means they are leaving but don't want to say you are at fault.
I think this is one of those cases where words are 1% of meaning. Tone, context, body language...
Oh wow. Do you really want to know?
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I really deserve someone better than you.
Yeah, I don't *think* she's leaving.
It's a polite way of telling you she slept with your best friend.
I kid I kid....
But who hasn't! He's such a slut!
ah yeah, there was snuggles afterwards.
My best friend is kind of... meh
you're good, then.
It's code...it means she read the following post from a teen advice thread and wants you to start acting like this:
If you're not sure what someone means, ask them.
I think it could mean either one of the above... but I think even if she were trying to break up, it doesn't necessarily mean that it's a lie or an excuse. She might genuinely feel that you deserve someone who cares for you the way you care for her ("her" in the generic sense).
And BuzWeaver just gave you incredible advice-- for life. For just about any and every situation.
a) you like this girl, but she does not like you: she thinks you're a wimp and wants you to get lost
b) she's your girlfriend: she think you're a wuss and wants you to get lost
really, find some other girl. or several of them while you're at it.
Women are a mystery to me. I have no idea what she means when she says "I don't deserve you"
I have only been able to break the female code for two phrases, they are:
1. "I don't care where we go to eat, you choose."
This is code for " I'm bored and think it will be amusing to shoot down your every dinner suggestion until you guess the place I want to go." Women love to foster your illusion that you have some say in these matters.This used to be one of my wifes favorite games.
2. "Let's just be friends."
This is code for " I want you to take me places and spend money on me, but I want to make clear from the beginning that you are never going to see me naked." If you don't believe me, invite this women to a nice restaurant, then after diner ask the waiter for seperate checks. I guarantee you she'll stop returning your phone calls!
EDIT: Before someone gets up in arms, this entire post is meant as joke.
ah, i hadn't really thought of it that way.
Hmm, potential responses:
Thanks. Regardless, you're stuck with me. I've locked all the doors.
I know. But making love with you sure beats my other charity volunteer work.
No one deserves a night of perfect sensual love, ass smacking, strangulation, torture and death. But we make do with what we get.
/Can you guess why I was dumped last week?
some of you need help... serious help.
Well, depending on how many are saying it, you might be in trouble.
Really, though, as someone mentioned, ask her. Hopefully you feel close enough to her to get her to talk about this. If she's insecure about the relationship, she might need some reassurance.
If she's planning on leaving you, better to get it out now.
That was great. LMAO
My ex used to say that all the time.
I then realized after awhile that she was right, and I broke up with her.
she probably cheated on you.