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Since i was literally old enough to walk, my fascination has been with lighting. Specifically entertainment lighting. I'd play with all the dimmer switches in the house seeing how the lights operated and the looks that could be created, and when my dad would take me to a concert or to something like Sesame Street Live, I'd spend the whole time looking up at the lights. Dad would get pissed that he spent all this money when I didn't watch the show. Spent my high school years in the theater, designing and running lights for the shows. I was led into engineering in college, but quickly dropped out and switched my major to theater production.

And what do I do now in my mid 40s? I play with lights, and program lights. Now, I'm not in my dream job, but it's dream-adjacent. My dream would be to work designing systems and programming in musical theater for the rest of my life, but there's just not much money there unless you make it way up the ladder and work non stop, and you pretty much have to live in NYC. Instead, I worked in corporate events and museum exhibition lighting for years. And now, I work in the film and television industry as a lighting programmer and data tech. It pays quite well; provides a substantial rental income for equipment I own; provides full heath insurance, retirement, and other benefits; and I get multiple free catered meals every day in addition to never-ending snacks and drinks. Pretty hard to not love it.

So, I'm childhood-dream adjacent.
What an illuminating post! :D

But glad you are almost doing your dream job.
 
Landed my dream job this month, as a developer at a famous burger chain. Still in disbelief. Went back to college to take care of my mother - it really paid off. Prayers and hard work above all.

Web developer?
What burger chain? Burger King? :)
 
Since i was literally old enough to walk, my fascination has been with lighting. Specifically entertainment lighting. I'd play with all the dimmer switches in the house seeing how the lights operated and the looks that could be created, ....
When I started your post I misread what you wrote as lightning, and I thought, "This is gonna be good".

Then I thought I read "entertainment lightning", and I thought, "This is gonna be really good". Visions of Van de Graaf generators, Lichtenberg figures, and giant electrical machines sprang to mind.

Then I got to "dimmer switches" and realized my mistake. Seeing the amount of text you subsequently wrote about lighting (not lightning), I was a bit disappointed. Still, your story was a good read, and I'm glad you're basically living your dream-adjacent job.
 
Work from home..

I don't really like working from home. I prefer to be in the office.


I’ve been working from home exclusively for the past 7 months. It’s great and I’m very thankful that I’m able to do it, but it’s not quite like I thought it would be.

One thing I didn’t realize is how much of my people interactions occurred in the office. I’m generally an introvert so I don’t require that much socialization, but I do believe everyone needs some for mental health reasons and after a few months, I started feel feel like I was definitely lacking there.

The other thing that’s a challenge is that there aren’t any natural transitions into and out of “work mode”. My commute used to serve that purpose. It’s a bit of a challenge getting started working on projects 15-20 minutes after waking up, or switching into “Husband/Dad mode” the instant I walk out of the office.

These are small things of course, and like I said, I’m grateful. I’ve been working towards this for five years now with my current employer. Just said all that to say that the ideal scenario is often slightly less than ideal.
 
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I’ve been working from home exclusively for the past 7 months. It’s great and I’m very thankful that I’m able to do it, but it’s not quite like I thought it would be.

One thing I didn’t realize is how much of my people interactions occurred in the office. I’m generally an introvert so I don’t require that much socialization, but I do believe everyone needs some for mental health reasons and after a few months, I started feel feel like I was definitely lacking there.

The other thing that’s a challenge is that there aren’t any natural transitions into and out of “work mode”. My commute used to serve that purpose. It’s a bit of a challenge getting started working on projects 15-20 minutes after waking up, or switching into “Husband/Dad mode” the instant I walk out of the office.

These are small things of course, and like I said, I’m grateful. I’ve been working towards this for five years now with my current employer. Just said all that to say that the ideal scenario is often slightly less than ideal.

What work do you do that allows you to work form home?

(Personally that has never been a thought in my head, curious as to how it would play out if I had that option.)
 
What work do you do that allows you to work form home?

(Personally that has never been a thought in my head, curious as to how it would play out if I had that option.)

I work for a commercial bank in the US. I guess the best way to describe my job is “data consultant”. Basically, we (my boss and his team) help insure the quality of the data used and created by commercial lending and the various groups that support commercial lending.

A normal day looks like a few conference calls, mining data, going through process/systems documentation and lots of “trying to figure out why something looks the way it does”.

It would probably bore the life out of 90% of people but I like it. :)
 
I’ve been working from home exclusively for the past 7 months. It’s great and I’m very thankful that I’m able to do it, but it’s not quite like I thought it would be.

One thing I didn’t realize is how much of my people interactions occurred in the office. I’m generally an introvert so I don’t require that much socialization, but I do believe everyone needs some for mental health reasons and after a few months, I started feel feel like I was definitely lacking there.

The other thing that’s a challenge is that there aren’t any natural transitions into and out of “work mode”. My commute used to serve that purpose. It’s a bit of a challenge getting started working on projects 15-20 minutes after waking up, or switching into “Husband/Dad mode” the instant I walk out of the office.

These are small things of course, and like I said, I’m grateful. I’ve been working towards this for five years now with my current employer. Just said all that to say that the ideal scenario is often slightly less than ideal.
I can work from Home whenever I want, but unless I need to be at home for a workman I generally don't.

Your right that a commute does help you separate work from home.

Of course I do work from Home quite often in the evenings and weekends!
 
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I’ve been working from home exclusively for the past 7 months. It’s great and I’m very thankful that I’m able to do it, but it’s not quite like I thought it would be.

One thing I didn’t realize is how much of my people interactions occurred in the office. I’m generally an introvert so I don’t require that much socialization, but I do believe everyone needs some for mental health reasons and after a few months, I started feel feel like I was definitely lacking there.

The other thing that’s a challenge is that there aren’t any natural transitions into and out of “work mode”. My commute used to serve that purpose. It’s a bit of a challenge getting started working on projects 15-20 minutes after waking up, or switching into “Husband/Dad mode” the instant I walk out of the office.

These are small things of course, and like I said, I’m grateful. I’ve been working towards this for five years now with my current employer. Just said all that to say that the ideal scenario is often slightly less than ideal.

I can work from Home whenever I want, but unless I need to be at home for a workman I generally don't.

Your right that a commute does help you separate work from home.

Of course I do work from Home quite often in the evenings and weekends!

Agreed that a commute - or, even a short walk - something that distances you physically from where you work - can serve as a good separating filtering function between the two.

But, sometimes, especially when I am writing, or researching, I work from home. I welcome the silence and the solitude, because I regard the very idea of an open plan office as the spawn of Satan; certainly, I can never get meaningful work done in such an environment, work that requires some thought.

Agree with @AlliFlowers that even introverts (and I am one, as well) need occasional professional (and personal) encounters with the rest of the human race. However, these days, I find that one or two days a week can meet that need.
 
What work do you do that allows you to work form home?

(Personally that has never been a thought in my head, curious as to how it would play out if I had that option.)

I've worked from my home office for the last 15 years as a dev/architect/writer. I do occasionally have to make a trek up into town (~30 minutes), and a couple of times a year might take a business trip OOT (ATL, DC mostly) - but usually I'm here. I did a lengthy-ish gig in SV/SF for a few months in the AR/VR space, that was significant travel, but the comp was vulgar :D

The HO happens to be 2 blocks from the ocean, so when the waves are awesome, the day is great, pretty much any time where I'm not under-the-gun for a deliverable, I can close "the office" :) I'm my own boss, we've bailed on clients we decided caused too much grief, I'm in a position where I can be very selective about the type of work I take on. Clients to come to us, I haven't been on a "sales call" in two decades :D
 
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I've worked from my home office for the last 15 years as a dev/architect/writer. I do occasionally have to make a trek up into town (~30 minutes), and a couple of times a year might take a business trip OOT (ATL, DC mostly) - but usually I'm here. I did a lengthy-ish gig in SV/SF for a few months in the AR/VR space, that was significant travel, but the comp was vulgar :D

The HO happens to be 2 blocks from the ocean, so when the waves are awesome, the day is great, pretty much any time where I'm not under-the-gun for a deliverable, I can close "the office" :) I'm my own boss, we've bailed on clients we decided caused too much grief, I'm in a position where I can be very selective about the type of work I take on. Clients to come to us, I haven't been on a "sales call" in two decades :D

Must be nice to get a sick comp.
Lol at being able to stop working when you want & wish I could do the same.
That says something though when a person is that much of a headache that you don't want to take their money & I guess in your case don't need to...
 
Must be nice to get a sick comp.
Lol at being able to stop working when you want & wish I could do the same.
That says something though when a person is that much of a headache that you don't want to take their money & I guess in your case don't need to...

Well, I guess part of my point: I place a lot of value in not having to daily commute, to being here / picking up my daughter from school, being able to take a long weekend down at Universal on a whim. I wouldn't take twice our revenue if it meant sacrificing those types of freedoms. Plus, it's my experience - and our particular lifestyle choices - there's not much we' do different within a pretty wide range of revenue difference (if that makes sense, sorry, that wasn't articulated very well ... last night was a late one :D)
 
Well, I guess part of my point: I place a lot of value in not having to daily commute, to being here / picking up my daughter from school, being able to take a long weekend down at Universal on a whim. I wouldn't take twice our revenue if it meant sacrificing those types of freedoms. Plus, it's my experience - and our particular lifestyle choices - there's not much we' do different within a pretty wide range of revenue difference (if that makes sense, sorry, that wasn't articulated very well ... last night was a late one :D)


lol yeah. Funny enough I am on the fence of wanting a pay cut and more at home time vs. about 15k-20k more in pay & a lot less at home time. Wonder If I will feel the difference.
 
Dream job would be able to dabble in my various hobbies (Photgraphy, Hiking, Audio Editing/ Live Sound Engineering, 3D CAD Modeling) and add a few new hobbies (podcasting / writing & preferably podcasting/ writing about said current hobbies).

If I could replace my current salary/benefits and add a bit on top of it, that would be great.
 
Taking time out is an excellent idea; it allows you to change perspective, see and do new things, and return with renewed energies should you wish to resume your old life.
Like they say, you only live once. I'm 52 and I'm enjoying life before I get old. I plan on entering geriatrics in poverty, with one of those reverse mortgages.
 
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Agree with @AlliFlowers that even introverts (and I am one, as well) need occasional professional (and personal) encounters with the rest of the human race. However, these days, I find that one or two days a week can meet that need.

I could never work at home full time, I feel like between the isolation, same environment all day/night, limited interpersonal communication, etc, I would go stir crazy.

I can do some work from home, basically the more mundane and monotonous stuff like approving prescriptions/reviewing patient profiles. But I’d rather separate my work life and home life. Once a while is nice, but it’s not something I’d want to every day of my life.
 
I could never work at home full time, I feel like between the isolation, same environment all day/night, limited interpersonal communication, etc, I would go stir crazy.

I can do some work from home, basically the more mundane and monotonous stuff like approving prescriptions/reviewing patient profiles. But I’d rather separate my work life and home life. Once a while is nice, but it’s not something I’d want to every day of my life.

I'm an introvert, and much of my work involves writing, thinking and researching - even in my current work.

Mundane stuff - letters, emails, swift banal reports, I can do while suffering the background noise of others.

But, for serious thinking, and researching and - above all - serious writing, I want privacy and solitude.

Professionally, I long for an office of my own (and - oddly - for much if not most of my professional life to date - this is what I have enjoyed).

As for social interaction - above all, professional social interaction, I am happy to meet with people over coffee (my daily fix in a professional setting), or in mess halls or when hosting proper dinners.
 
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