My wife's entire extended family lives in another state from us in a very rural area. They're nice people. We visit them twice a year.
There is no way a single one of them would ever get an iPhone. They could afford it if they really wanted one, but it would be very irresponsible for them to do so. They drive an hour to the town to go to 'Olive Garden' on special occations. Maybe 4 or 5 times a year. That's a big deal for them. Buying an iPhone AT&T plan would mean cutting back on other essential items, which would be a bad choice on their part.
Yes, you are rich. I am also rich. You don't understand this until you get out of your community and travel a bit. Then it becomes very clear.
There are also plenty of people who's decision to purchase an iphone and data plan could be considered financially irresponsible, but they do it anyway. Are these people also rich? If your wife's family made the irresponsible decision of buying an iphone and cutting back other essential items, should someone who saw them with it out at olive garden make the assumption that they are rich?
I see where you are coming from, but I don't think having an iphone makes you "rich," or is really any indication of your monetary status, other than to say that you have good enough credit that AT&T sold and activated a phone for you. There may be other indicators about a person with an iphone that would further support the idea that they *could* be "rich," as you say, such as the clothing and accessories they wear or the car they drive, but the iphone alone, to me, isn't an indication of much of anything. So they spent a little more on their phone than the next guy. Big deal. Who knows what they cut out of their budget to buy it. There are plenty of people out there with money coming out of their ears who just use the "free" cellphones because they just couldn't care less about what their cell phone can do besides make phone calls. That doesn't mean they aren't "rich."
It's not like we are talking about affording a Lamborghini vs a Honda civic here. You HAVE to be "rich" to buy a Lamborghini, but you don't have to be "rich" to buy a $200 phone. If it was a $1500 phone, and everyone knew it, then yeah, it would definitely make the statement "I have money!"
Basically, what I'm trying to say, is that an iphone doesn't make any more of a statement about money than just the fact that you are able to afford the luxury of a cell phone in the first place. If you want to argue that having a cell phone AT ALL is a luxury and therefore makes you "rich," then I would probably have to agree.