Was gonna post this in the "Words of Phrases that Annoy You" thread, but I think it's better-suited here. A lot of the time, especially recently, something I say in a text or Discord server is responded to with either a GIF, meme, or other image. There are two issues:
- Often, people just retreat to saying I'm uncultured, and that's why I don't like or understand any of the stuff. And while that is true, I would argue that's about 10% of the reason.
- Like, every time this happens, I don't understand the facial expression (in the case of a person or character) that is trying to be construed, or the message that's being implied. That accounts for about another 70% of the issue.
The other thing is, which I'd argue counts for the remaining 20%, is that it takes a hell of a lot more brain power (and not to mention, understanding of obscure and honestly frustrating pop culture references that I couldn't care less about) to understand a GIF or similar image than to read text.
So, the solution is what
@Scepticalscribe and others have said time and again—
just use plain words! I really don't understand why this is so hard for most of Gen Z. I've tried politely asking people to stop, and they won't. So I'm stuck asking what each obscure image means, which is a waste of time. Or, more commonly, just ignoring it, leaving a hole in the conversation.
Surely I can't be alone in this, it's so goddamn annoying.