The fact is no laptop should be getting hotter than 90C. Can the CPU handle it? Yes. Should the CPU have to handle it? No.
No. The fact is that MOST laptops (especially workstation ones) would get to 90C under the most horrible load that they can handle.
And MOST would idle at around 50-60C.
You can't apply desktop logic to laptops here.
If you don't want to take my words for it, please feel free to look things up. Laptops are very prone to get dangerously close to junction temperature.
100 degrees is problematic and will increase wear on the system. Heat is not good for electronics period. 100 degrees is not normal and not good.
Any amount of heat is bad on the system. Period. 100C will just wear it out faster, but it's wearing either way. Depending on the material, though, the wearing can go on for years or even decades before the processor is no longer operating within specifications. At which point, you'd already be looking at a new laptop.
And people seem to be operating under the mistaken belief that if its not shutting off due to heat then its fine and working as intended. The fact is that pretty much no modern laptop shuts off from heat anymore. It just downclocks. If the CPU is running below base frequency under sustained heavy loads then there is a problem; the CPU is not hitting its intended frequencies and thus is not working as intended. Running at base frequency is okay but not ideal. A perfectly working CPU will run at max boost.
And here's another misconception.
Turbo-Boost should only kick in when the thermal headroom allows for it to do so.
In most cases, if the processor is operating within its intended specifications (as in... a 2.3GHz quad-core Haswell running at 2.3GHz with all 4 cores stressed), that's still within specs.
And I have yet to experience said thermal throttling with a rMBP. The only thing I have seen is a bug with the EFI system forcing the rMBP to go into throttled state indefinitely.
I had a dell that would down clock to 1.2 ghz when playing Skyrim (from base 2.0 ghz and boost 2.6 ghz). Did the dell shut off? No. Was it working properly? No. Was there a problem with it? Yes.
That's a Dell, though. Have you monitored a rMBP to do the same thing?
Is no one concerned that Apple is selling you an expensive CPU upgrade and then potentially cripples that CPU by not supplying the thermal headroom? Or the appropriate power envelope (85 W for the system isn't enough)?
It's not that 85W isn't enough. The power supply seems to "throttle" itself when its temperature reaches a critical point because it's trying to draw too much current. I suspect that in certain environments (with high ambient temperature), this means that it's not reaching the 85W power that it's supposed to supply. But that's all good because it should protect itself against explosion due to excess heat. Imagine what would happen if your power supply goes bang on you?
In a nutshell, the rMBP does have the potential of drawing more power than the power supply can provide, but you would have to stress it far beyond the point of simply playing Skyrim for it to do so.
And as an aside, I have had access to 4 rMBPs by now. Disregarding the fact that I regularly run computational workloads and algorithms that easily chew through 16GB of RAM that it offers for breakfast while stressing all cores to their max, I also have a Bootcamp partition in which I... overclocked the GPU to maximize the framerate I'd get from the machine.
Result? Ever seen Skyrim run at 2880 x 1800 at 30fps?
If I can do that, then why do I have to bother with temperature or frequencies?
And if you really want to know how the rMBP does with a heavy workload, why don't I run PCSX2 (PS2 emulator) with one of the most intensive games and see how the rMBP fares?