No inside info allowed.Someone slap me, I'm getting out of line again.
Dang, bigandy beat me to it.
Still, I'm not as 'fast' as rdowns
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When did you lose your virginity?
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Still, I'm not as 'fast' as rdowns
Well I lost my virginity to a boy at the age of 17... I guess I'll never do it with a girl now. Which I don't know what to feel about that since I wanted to do that at least once, just to feel the water.
Yeah, but that doesn't show gender, which is one of the big things I'm interested in.
Sorry about the phrasing, I didn't mean anything by it. I know some people put first-time sex on a big pedestal and I don't agree with that. I'm not afraid to admit it, the first time I got any, I didn't last very long at all (though she still got off; I've got hands for a very good reason
). However, once I lost it, I didn't feel any different (except maybe tired; ha ha ha). Besides, I was glad I waited, because I still can't think of a better woman I would have wanted to lose it to than the one I did. Of course, that opinion might change if we break up, but that's not a definite thing that I'm not going to worry about.Anyway, I didn't mean to offend anyone, though I just have to bring logic into this; if you don't think it's anybody's business if/when you lost it, why exactly did you reply to this topic? Just to tell me off? I don't even know why you would bother, then.
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Presumably people who believe this also don't drive, as the consequences of a 'mistake' driving is arguably far worse than a 'mistake' during sex. I imagine it's more likely as well.
That's not the point of this thread. If you want to argue about that take it somewhere else. You're going to get this thread locked by a moderator and wasteland'd if you don't stop this argument.
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I'm sure an insurance payout would be of great comfort to the person who dies in a hideous car crash.
Of course I'm not advocating anyone (of any age) get pregnant by mistake, but there are a hell of a lot of ways to make it as close as risk free as it gets. Far more so than many of the things we do every day, such as driving. The idea that people are denying themselves one of life's great pleasures because they've been educated to fear everything to do with sex is just kind of saddening, really, when far more things people do every single day are far more risky.
Give it a go. Girl secks rox
Then again so may boy secks, however I don't really fancy that.
No, I don't think I'm "cool" because I lost it then; in fact, I didn't tell anyone about it until I was directly asked about it. And even then, I wasn't bragging, I basically went "Yeah, [girlfriend's name] and I had sex about a week ago. Can I change the subject now?" (though a friend of mine heard the news and hugged me upon hearing it, which still makes me laugh).
As to your second point, I have never gotten my girlfriend pregnant, we always use condoms (spermicidal too, just for extra protection) and since we were both virgins, neither of us has any STD's. Also, by your reasoning, that means poor people shouldn't have sex, since a condom could break and they would have trouble affording an abortion (or however they would take care of it).
Anyway, that's just my thoughts. Oh, and if your remark was sarcastic, sorry; I really hate the word lol. Much prefer emoticons; plus, for some reason, "lol" and people who say it a lot (especially in real life) piss me off. Anyone agree with me?
Sorry for the long post, hope I didn't put you to sleep while you read it.
Thank you! Do not argue, forum fights suck, I had enough of that $h!t in the piracy thread (which thankfully has died down. Hmm, is a resurrection needed?
). I'd like this thread to remain open, I'm interested in the responses from a purely clinical/scientific standpoint, I don't want any arguments.
Such a shame.
You should not let the libido of your aggressive (?) partner define your life.
Not to disrespect the Gay members of this community, but sex with the opposite gender is something to be treasured. Not just a "release" of sexual urges. But something more.
Well my partner and I aren't really together anymore. It's more of: at one time I thought I had an interest in girls, but I have found that I really don't. As much as I believe for 'most' people that sex with the opposite sex is something to be treasured, personally I feel like I would feel dirty afterwards, because of course I would have been lying to myself and my partner.
Sex with the same sex can also be a treasure
And I'm sure those members of the community would point out that for them, relations with someone of the same sex can be something to be treasured, be something more.
I don't really see how your comment can be construed as anything other than an alternative way of saying "I don't believe sex between two men, or two women, can be as 'deep' and 'treasured' as an experience between a man and a woman. But don't take any offense to that."
Not trying to start a fight, just pointing it out.
I was probably 15 as well, and when I look back on it I really wish I would have said no. She ended up cheating on me and all this other stuff.
However about two years later I ended with with another girl, and I wish I would have waited for her. Though we are not together anymore, that time was probably the best relationship wise for me.
So kids the moral of the story is make sure you know who your partner is, and be sure about it!
However about two years later I ended with with another girl, and I wish I would have waited for her. Though we are not together anymore, that time was probably the best relationship wise for me.
So kids the moral of the story is make sure you know who your partner is, and be sure about it!
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