I realize it is lame to ask about this stuff on the internet, but at times it helps to learn from the collective experience of random strangers (no offense ). So my girlfriend of almost a year recently told me that she wanted some time; which was basically a breakup with the possibility of her wanting to get back with me in some uncertain time in the future (she wouldn't let go of that possibility). She said that the reason for this was that she used to be madly in love with me (at first, I was worried that I could end up hurting her because I wasn't getting there so fast), but that now she doesn't think that she's "in love" with me anymore. Just like that... The reason for this sudden change of feelings remains unknown for both of us. We used to have an awesome relationship and I was a great boyfriend. I listened, I helped her, I accepted difficult things about her past, I was great in bed (always thinking of her first), we had a great time together, there was nothing wrong except for her sudden change. It's been only a week and already it has become impossible for me. If you've been here long enough, you probably recognize me from a "friend zone" thread a few years ago. I've already lived something similar and I swore I wouldn't do it again. For the past week she's been calling me and telling me how much she misses me and how it was weird not waking up with me, and that she loves me ("te quiero mucho" in spanish, which is what you tell to a friend or a family member), but she still doesn't wan't to get back with me. She says that she's still confused and that she needs to be in love with me to get back with me. I just don't see how she's going to fall in love with me again, I mean, how does that even work? You can't make someone love you, so I guess this is the end. What do you guys think, I should just move on shouldn't I?