In terms of processing power, the 13"s are going to be more than capable of doing those tasks. If your concern is screen size, thats a purely personal choice.
I made the jump from a 13" MacBook to a 15" MBP, and although it does weigh a bit more, I'm happy with my choice. I got the 2.4GHz i5 with the HR AG display.
If you go for a 15" model, I reckon you'd be best buying the 2.4GHz model. According to Geekbench results on MacTracker, the 2.53 is only about 4% better overall (4806 for the 2.4 vs 4994 for the 2.53), and the 2.66 only 13% better (4806 for the 2.4 vs 5422 for the 2.66). They do come with GPU and HDD bumps, but the differences in processor speed is tiny.