I've traditionally been a black bezel kinda guy, and had a black 3GS & 4S.
I went white for the 5S, silver; for a change of pace and to try it. I LOVED IT. After a very short time, your eyes tune out the white bezel. And it's a sharp looking phone! And I think white bezel blends in best for iOS's white theme.
I did just pre-order the space gray 6S PLUS. Just because I wanted another change of pace, not because I disliked the white one bit. I do like the look of seeing nothing but the screen, so I'm giving that another shot.
You should try white.