iTunes just sucks... Period. I hate it. I just use it to backup and restore. Other than that, I use copy trans manager. Google it. It is a drag and drop application. I have used iTunes since it's inception, and it has never improved.
Man, it just thinks it is smarter than you and that it knows best... Well, I guess it is an apple product. My last straw was that it will not use a network share as a media library. It will let u stream, but in other to sync media to your iOS device, it has to be copied to the computer. I do not want to house the same media in two different places! This was the case on my Mac as I will never install it on my pc(s). Windows media player is just better than iTunes... If apple didn't ry to control everything , their stuff would be better...
Man, I know for some it couldn't be easier, and for them apple did a good job... But, what about us who are smarter and require more power and control? When will we have a real advanced user mode? This is the same for iOS devices. I need a file management system doggone it! They can keep their current granny setup as a default, but let the advanced users get what they need. If apple did that, they would get everyone else who refuse to go their way.........