Of course its apples fault. They are the richest tech company in the world, if their manufacturing process isn't good enough then they spend some of their precious profits on sorting it out.
I was wow'd by Apple several years ago when I picked up an iphone 3G on launch weekend. I then upgraded to the 3GS and 4 and added an ipad and macbook along the way. I was an out and out apple fan and convinced many people to also make the switch. However, recently they've started to loose me and I see apple resting on their laurrels and relying on their ever faithful customers, rather than pushing the boat out and really moving things forward. The post above is a perfect example of someone who would buy apple regardless of the problems. To be honest, I defended apple on the whole antennagate issue on the iphone 4. Looking back, I was completely wrong to. Apple did mess up, the design was a mistake. Perhaps that was the start of it going wrong.
My original ipad is now so slow its almost unsuable. Yes its old but iOS is a basic OS, they haven't updated it to the latest version so I wonder why it hasn't lasted much longer. Clearly it was so underspecced initially so people upgrade quicker. My 3 year old macbook has now slowed down as much as my 3 year old windows laptop did. I loved OSX because it was so fast and I never had to wait for things to load, now its slow and clunky and the loading symbol comes up a lot.
For my phone I'm now using a galaxy S3 and to be honest its a breath of fresh air. I used to slate android but I'd never used it (like many of the haters I think). Quite frankly its great and I've had app crashes far less than I used to on iOS. I wanted the iphone 5 to wow me and win me back but it hasn't and I'm now considering a Nexus 7 (or Nexus 10 if they release one) to replace my ipad and, whilst I thought when I switched to the mac I would never go back, I might actually go back to windows for my next computer because I just can't see what the apple premium gets me any more.
Apple go out of their way to state how great the build of the iphone is. It should be near perfect (within reason) out of the box and I think the more people that take them back the better so maybe they will start to build to the quality level the retail price actually warrents!!