Second, it does seem like every time Apple releases something new, there's a torrent of criticism. Yet I'm really happy with everything I've bought. The forums tend to make me worry about things, or notice things I wouldn't otherwise have noticed. For example, there was talk about the MacBook Pro (2016) keyboard being really noisy. I guess it is, but I'm pretty sure that never would have occurred to me had people not mentioned it.
I've noticed the same thing. I used Apple products since the Apple 2, and simply bought them, and used them. However, since I started reading macrumours a couple of months back I started looking for issues.
In reality it's a small user group that makes a lot of noise, once I've finished checking if the macbook is warped, if there's any backlight bleed on my ipad pro, whether my airpods battery is fine, if my fans work properly, if there's any tiny blemish on the back of my watch, then I'm happy.
Like you, I've been happy with every Apple product I have purchased. (Even the touchbar)