So after reading just the FIRST page in this thread, I got this as the takeaway:
"Everybody is elitist and I hate that because it's beneath me!"
And that in itself sounds (to me) a bit...well, elitist? Yeah, it's kind of coming off that way.
But honestly, is that a bad thing? Probably not; I think we may have been created with a bit of elitism in our hearts.
But if we're all elitist...
...then is it possible that nobody is elitist?
Maybe that's it. We're all guilty. We're all sinners, even; with not a one of us pure. Of course that's okay, and I just said that because of my own elitism. But maybe it's just God playing an inside joke on every last one of us for a little laugh. Come on, you laughed too.
Case in point: Music and art. I have never met so many elitists as when I was friends with people in bands and the other arts. Ooohoooooo, the hubris; you could shine your car with that stuff! (I don't know what that means, it just sounded funny in my head)
But yeah, these folks, trying to make a good impression on fans and potential customers, they would be all "namaste" with anybody and everybody that they want to (need to?) impress.
But then there's the judging that always comes later. Always! About people who disagree on the environment, veganism, what not to wear when on stage, and all sorts of things. Of course it extends all the way down to the tablet or smartwatch you've chosen.
Oh and man oh man,
bring one of these beauties to a pop concert, and you'll get the side-eye so bad, it'll look cross-eyed! To the judgy (which is all of us as I've established above), it matters not how good something sounds or feels to you. Oh no, your lead vocalist's Judgism (Is that a word? Yes, I just made it up, and yes it's a noun!) will come out in full force and they may even want you to play your parts from backstage, behind 2 amplifier stacks and all the equipment containers!
A lot of people come off as though they are "to each their own" and "live and let live", but once you get to know them, that's when you begin to see their own elitism start to come into the light.
But is it wrong? I say "hell no!" Well, except when it causes us to start unjustly excluding people. Yeah, I'm kind of judgy too, and I think it's part of my DNA. But for me, there are two things to remember:
- I may be judgy/elitist in my own way, and although God may have created me that way, I should always be making an effort to see other points of view. And then to use my own good judgment to decide what to do (or what NOT to do, as the case may be).
- I should never let my elitism prevent me from admitting I'm wrong. Okay, I can do that, but I'll never admit I'm wrong about that Gretsch. 😉
Here's my feeling: Buy what you want. Play whichever guitar you want. Wear whatever watch you want. Carry that massive smartphone on your back like I do. Vote for whomever you want. Drive a car or take public transportation...whichever you WANT. Ignore the nay-sayers. Ignore the holier-than-thous.
TLDR: We're all elitist. You are too, so deal with it. And then have fun with it, but remember what your mama taught you and don't be mean to anybody.