iPhones are exhibiting the same symptoms all over the U.S. Just because you can't replicate it in every single circumstance does not necessarily mean that it is solely software or network based, but it is certainly possible (likely probable) that there are a few factors combining to cause the problems.
As for your assertion that the area in VA where your calls are being dropped is not a low-signal area, what proof do you have? Unless you can physically measure the signal using something other than an iPhone (any iPhone, considering Apple has now admitted they suck at displaying actual signal strength), you might not necessarily know the truth. Add to that the fact that signal strength can vary radically over even a small area, and there are a host of problems with the supposition that the antenna has "nothing" to do with the dropped calls.