toezter said:
you can't, in one point of a persons life who posts about college fun (blackouts), label them as an Alcoholic. its like telling someone who's tried a line of coke and call them a drug addict, no. if someone were to state "oh man, i'm 45 with no job, no family, but drinking non-stop since nineteen dikity TWO!" then yes, i would also label him as an alchie.
If you kindly glance back at my very first post,
I did NOT call anybody an alcoholic. In fact, I even gave my own blackout story. Anyways, I won't bother reposting what I already posted once.
toezter said:
but whatever, i never took a substance class in college (especially three, whats your major?). by your definition, my mother is an alcoholic...
That's just it... it is NOT my definition. It is a definition set forth by medical professionals spanning different disciplines for instance, psychology and molecular biology. I really didn't want to get into this; that's why my initial post was short and 'sweet.' But since it's been brought forth... Continued consumption of alcohol after experiencing adverse/negative consequences is considered to be symptoms of and leading to alcoholism.
What are adverse/negative consequences? If you have had legal ramifications; (say a DUI, or other citation of being drunk in public, etc.) and still that doesn't get you to stop drinking, if you have had physical ramifications (say blackouts, hangovers, etc.) and you still continue to drink (not just the day of.. but thereafter), if your work/studies become impaired (say you start showing up to work/school late, or you aren't as productive, or duh, if you don't show up at all) and still continue to drink, and if your friends/ family are expressing concern and you still continue to drink... These are just a few examples of people imbibing even after experiencing adverse/negative consequences; thereby displaying definite substance abuse and potentially alcoholism (addiction).
There is also one 'system' that shows there are distinctly different forms of alcoholism... But I really don't feel like digging up all my notes and corresponding text books.
Raven VII said:
But that's just it - I didn't realize I would forget the moment while it was happening. I only realized there's a gap in my memory the day after, with only very faint glimpses or flashes of what happened. <snip> Dunno, the more I dig at it, the more I remember. Is it a true blackout?
Sounds like a blackout to me. There are different severities to blackouts... and that's the idea; most people can't tell at that moment, "Wow. I am in 'blackout' mode and I will not be able to remember this specific time frame come tomorrow." I'm sorry if
you Raven, felt like I called you an alcoholic or felt offended by my response. I just wanted people to be aware that blackouts are potentially very dangerous and are our bodies very clear sign that we have reached our threshold of alcohol.