Sounds good.I upgraded and got my Pro Max today. I went to the store first to check it out. After seeing/holding it I knew it was for me. I didn't feel like it was so much bigger that it was unsuable. I have bigger hands too (L/XL glove) so that probably helps. So far I am very happy with it. I like watching shows during lunch break and the bigger screen is going to be killer for that.
I was going to hold off for next years model, but my XR is starting to lag and after seeing my wife's new 12 and the oled screen I was sold. FWIW I got a free line from Tmobile and the XR is being used for that. Traded in an old 8+ we had.
Frustratingly over in the UK we can’t go into a store to check it out until lockdown ends on 2nd Dec, otherwise I’d definitely have done that to compare the 3 (12p, 12pm and xr)!