Yeah this is the harsh truth - most people who want a MacBook Pro will be better off with a MacBook Air.These are not aimed at modest consumers these are pro machines. The definition of pro being of course people who make money from it. This is cheap for pro equipment. You even compared it to sgi machines plenty of ‘pros’ (businesses which use them to make money) bought them too.
I think you want to look at macbook air.
And the vast majority of people on this forum will be fine with the base level m3 MBP (with 16GB memory), even though I’ll probably get flamed for saying this.
It’s not enough SSD, because you need to keep all your photos, downloaded music, movies and tv shows, locally?
Ok, but be aware that you’re an outlier in today’s world of streaming & cloud storage and you’re going to pay a lot for your niche case habit.