Sorry about that. The way the lighting is over the notebook, it is hard to tell!
The bezel around the screen is slightly inset where the gasket meets the lid. The bezel is the exact same color of silver as the rest of the unibody.
As far as the bezel being black, I don't have the foggiest idea why Apple didn't make it black. All I can come up with is that Apple couldn't anodize aluminum black to their liking. There are colored anodized aluminum iPods, including black, so I know it's possible.
Personally, I had reservations. I thought of switching my order to glossy down the stretch while I waited for this to ship (I ordered the day it was announced). But that is sort of a fleeting memory at the moment.
My retrospective is whether jumping up to the 17" MBP will have been a good decision for me. I had a 17" PowerBook G4 and downsized a year and half ago to the 15" MacBook Pro. I got used to that size. So this thing is like a cafeteria tray to me! Gotta re-adjust!
I don't find the screen dim. Then again, I don't have a 15" MacBook Pro unibody to compare it to.
I think you'll be happy with whatever you decide to do. I have no dead pixels and it's plenty fine for me!